Hey there! Are you looking to learn more about your boyfriend? Or perhaps you need some new conversation starters? You're in luck! I've compiled a list of 80 questions to ask your boyfriend, ranging from light-hearted fun to more serious topics.
Keep in mind that the secret to a great conversation is to listen and be open. Avoid firing off questions like it's an interrogation. Take the time to discuss each answer and share your own thoughts as well. Ready? Let’s get started!
Fun Questions
- If you could have any superpower, what would it be?
- What's the funniest joke you know?
- If you were a character in a TV show, which one would you be?
- What's the weirdest food combination you actually enjoy?
- If you could instantly become an expert in one thing, what would it be?
- What's the most embarrassing thing that's happened to you in public?
- If you could have dinner with any historical figure, who would it be?
- What's your go-to dance move?
- If you were a cartoon character, who would you be?
- What's the strangest dream you've ever had?
Deep Questions
- What's your biggest fear in life?
- How do you define success?
- What's the most valuable life lesson you've learned so far?
- If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be?
- What do you think happens after we die?
- How has your upbringing shaped who you are today?
- What's the hardest thing you've ever had to overcome?
- What do you think is the meaning of life?
- How do you handle failure or disappointment?
- What's your biggest regret, and what did you learn from it?
Serious Questions
- Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years?
- What are your thoughts on marriage and having kids?
- How do you handle stress and difficult emotions?
- What are your core values in life?
- How important is religion or spirituality to you?
- What's your approach to managing finances?
- How do you define loyalty in a relationship?
- What's your biggest goal in life right now?
- How do you handle conflicts in relationships?
- What's your view on work-life balance?
Romantic Questions
- What was your first impression of me?
- What's your idea of a perfect date?
- What's the most romantic thing someone has ever done for you?
- How do you like to show affection?
- What's your favorite memory of us together?
- What song reminds you of me?
- If you could take me anywhere in the world right now, where would it be?
- What's your love language?
- What's the most attractive quality you find in me?
- How do you envision our future together?
Hypothetical Questions
- If you won the lottery, what's the first thing you'd do?
- If you could live in any time period, when would it be?
- If you could switch lives with anyone for a day, who would it be?
- If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?
- If you could instantly master any skill, what would you choose?
- If you could change one decision from your past, what would it be?
- If you had to live in a book, TV show, or movie, which would you choose?
- If you could bring back any extinct animal, which one would you choose?
- If you could have dinner with any three people, dead or alive, who would they be?
- If you could travel anywhere in space, where would you go?
Juicy Questions
- What's the craziest thing you've ever done?
- Have you ever had a crush on one of my friends?
- What's your biggest turn-on?
- Have you ever been in love before me?
- What's your most embarrassing childhood memory?
- Have you ever cheated on a test or exam?
- What's the biggest lie you've ever told?
- Have you ever had a paranormal experience?
- What's the wildest thing on your bucket list?
- Have you ever had a secret you couldn't tell anyone?
Flirty Questions
- What's your favorite physical feature of mine?
- If you could describe me in three words, what would they be?
- What's the sexiest outfit you've seen me in?
- Have you ever had a dream about me?
- What's your favorite way to be flirted with?
- If we were alone on a deserted island, what's the first thing you'd want to do?
- What's the most attractive thing about my personality?
- If you could give me a nickname, what would it be?
- What's your favorite memory of us kissing?
- If you could plan our next date, what would we do?
Spicy Questions
- What's your biggest fantasy?
- What's the sexiest thing I've ever done?
- If you could try one new thing in the bedroom, what would it be?
- What's your favorite part of my body?
- Have you ever had a sexy dream about me?
- What's the most daring place you'd want to get intimate?
- If you could dress me up in anything, what would you choose?
- What's your favorite way to be touched?
- If we made a spicy video, what would you want to include?
- What's the hottest thing I could whisper in your ear?
It's perfectly fine to skip any questions that you find uncomfortable. The aim is to enjoy the experience, get to know each other better, and deepen your connection. There's no need to tackle all these questions at once—take your time and allow the conversations to develop naturally.
