120 Would you rather questions for couples

Ever wondered what your partner would choose between two crazy options? These "would you rather" questions are perfect for a fun night in. Get ready to laugh, think, and maybe learn something new about each other!

By Yevhen Maslov

September 25, 2024

120 Would you rather questions for couples

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Deep Questions

Would you rather be able to read your partner's mind or have them always know exactly how to comfort you?

Would you rather relive your first date or create a perfect new first date?

Would you rather give up your career for love or give up love for your dream career?

Would you rather know the exact day you'll die or never know and possibly die young?

Would you rather be able to change one decision from your past or know one decision to make in your future?

Would you rather live a short life full of adventures or a long life of comfort and stability?

Would you rather be remembered as a great lover or a great friend?

Would you rather have a passionate but short-lived romance or a stable but less exciting lifelong partnership?

Would you rather know all of your partner's past secrets or have them never know any of yours?

Would you rather be able to relive your happiest memory whenever you want or erase your most painful one?

Would you rather have the ability to see 10 years into your future together or relive any 10 years of your past?

Would you rather be able to read each other's thoughts or feel each other's emotions?

Would you rather have a love that's passionate but turbulent or peaceful but predictable?

Would you rather sacrifice your happiness for your partner's or have your partner sacrifice their happiness for yours?

Would you rather know the truth about everything in your relationship or keep some mysteries alive?

Romantic Questions

Would you rather have a romantic dinner at home or go out to a fancy restaurant?

Would you rather go on a beach vacation or a mountain getaway with your partner?

Would you rather write a love letter or make a playlist for your partner?

Would you rather have a surprise date planned for you or plan a surprise date for your partner?

Would you rather spend a whole day cuddling or go on an exciting adventure together?

Would you rather have a small, intimate wedding or a big celebration with all your friends and family?

Would you rather receive flowers every week or one big romantic gesture once a year?

Would you rather have a partner who's great at giving massages or great at cooking?

Would you rather go stargazing or watch the sunrise together?

Would you rather dance in the rain or build a snowman together?

Would you rather have a candlelit bath together or a picnic under the stars?

Would you rather write a song for your partner or paint a portrait of them?

Would you rather surprise your partner with breakfast in bed or a midnight snack?

Would you rather go on a hot air balloon ride or a horse-drawn carriage ride?

Would you rather have a private dance lesson together or cook a gourmet meal together?

Spicy Questions

Would you rather give up sex or give up kissing for a month?

Would you rather have sex in a public place or in front of a mirror?

Would you rather try a new position every time or stick to your favorite?

Would you rather have amazing foreplay but okay sex, or okay foreplay but amazing sex?

Would you rather be dominated or be the dominator?

Would you rather have sex in the ocean or in a hot air balloon?

Would you rather use whipped cream or chocolate sauce in the bedroom?

Would you rather have a quickie every day or a long session once a week?

Would you rather watch an adult movie together or make your own private video?

Would you rather have sex with the lights on or in complete darkness?

Would you rather only have morning sex or only have night sex for a year?

Would you rather always initiate or always be initiated on?

Would you rather have sex in a car or in a tent?

Would you rather use toys in the bedroom or rely solely on your bodies?

Would you rather have a threesome or watch your partner with someone else?

Crazy Questions

Would you rather have a permanent unibrow or no eyebrows at all?

Would you rather always talk like a pirate or always walk like a crab?

Would you rather have spaghetti for hair or meatballs for eyes?

Would you rather fart glitter or burp bubbles?

Would you rather have a dog that can talk or a cat that can read your mind?

Would you rather always wear your clothes inside out or backwards?

Would you rather have hands for feet or feet for hands?

Would you rather sneeze confetti or cry chocolate tears?

Would you rather have a belly button that glows in the dark or a nose that whistles when you breathe?

Would you rather be able to teleport but only to places you've been before, or be able to fly but only 3 feet off the ground?

Would you rather have the ability to speak to sea creatures or communicate with plants?

Would you rather have a personal rain cloud follow you everywhere or a personal sun that makes you sweat constantly?

Would you rather have every song you hear turn into a polka version or every movie you watch turn into a musical?

Would you rather have tastebuds on your feet or eyes on your knees?

Would you rather be able to eat anything without gaining weight or sleep for only 2 hours a night and feel fully rested?

Lifestyle Questions

Would you rather live in the city or in the countryside?

Would you rather travel the world for a year or buy your dream house?

Would you rather have a high-paying job you hate or a low-paying job you love?

Would you rather be famous or wealthy?

Would you rather have lots of acquaintances or a few close friends?

Would you rather be able to eat anything without health consequences or never need to exercise?

Would you rather have a personal stylist or a personal trainer?

Would you rather live without internet or without air conditioning/heating?

Would you rather have a clean house or a full fridge?

Would you rather be an amazing cook or an amazing dancer?

Would you rather work from home or in an office?

Would you rather have a big wedding or a big honeymoon?

Would you rather have a pet dog or a pet cat?

Would you rather be able to fall asleep instantly or wake up easily in the morning?

Would you rather be really good at saving money or really good at earning money?

Future Together Questions

Would you rather grow old together in your hometown or retire to a new country?

Would you rather have a big family or travel the world as a couple?

Would you rather live in a tiny house or a mansion?

Would you rather start a business together or work in separate careers?

Would you rather have a traditional retirement or work part-time in your golden years?

Would you rather leave a legacy of wealth or a legacy of good deeds?

Would you rather spend your savings on experiences or material possessions?

Would you rather focus on your relationship or on personal growth?

Would you rather have weekly date nights or yearly romantic getaways?

Would you rather grow your own food or eat out at restaurants regularly?

Would you rather adopt children or have biological children?

Would you rather live close to your family or your partner's family?

Would you rather have a lot of couple friends or maintain separate social circles?

Would you rather prioritize saving for the future or enjoying the present moment?

Would you rather face challenges together or protect each other from difficulties?

Fun Questions

Would you rather have very long fingers or very short legs?

Would you rather eat only spicy food for a year or only bland food for a year?

Would you rather talk to animals or speak all human languages?

Would you rather have an extra eye or an extra nose?

Would you rather always wear wet socks or always have sand in your shoes?

Would you rather be covered in fur or covered in scales?

Would you rather have a personal chef or a personal masseuse?

Would you rather always speak in rhymes or always sing instead of talking?

Would you rather have hair that changes color with your mood or skin that changes color in the sun?

Would you rather be able to fly or breathe underwater?

Would you rather have fingers as long as your legs or legs as short as your fingers?

Would you rather have taste buds in your butt or poop through your mouth?

Would you rather always smell like onions or always smell like fish?

Would you rather have a third arm or a third leg?

Would you rather sneeze every time someone says your name or burp every time you laugh?

Hypothetical Scenarios

Would you rather be stranded on a deserted island together or separately in luxury?

Would you rather win the lottery together or each achieve your biggest individual dreams?

Would you rather switch bodies with your partner for a day or read each other's minds for a day?

Would you rather go back in time and meet as children or fast forward and meet in your old age?

Would you rather face a zombie apocalypse together or alien invasion together?

Would you rather be the only two people left on Earth or live in a world where everyone is immortal?

Would you rather have the ability to time travel together or teleport anywhere in the present?

Would you rather live in a world with no technology or a world with no nature?

Would you rather be famous as a couple or completely anonymous?

Would you rather have a superpower that only works when you're together or individual powers that work when you're apart?

Would you rather live in a world where love is guaranteed but boring, or a world where love is rare but intense?

Would you rather be the last two people to leave Earth for a space colony or the first two to return to a restored Earth?

Would you rather have a reality TV show about your relationship or write a best-selling book about it?

Would you rather live in a world where you can only communicate through song or through dance?

Would you rather restart your relationship with all your current knowledge or continue from this point with no memory of your past together?

Remember, the goal is to have fun and grow closer. There are no right or wrong answers, so be honest and enjoy the conversation!