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100 Fun and flirty this or that questions for couples

Ever played This or That with your partner? It's a great way to laugh together and maybe learn something new. Give these questions a try on your next night in!

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By Yevhen Maslov

September 01, 2024
100 Fun and flirty this or that questions for couples

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Want to add some excitement to your next date night? I've got just the thing for you: This or That questions for couples! It's a simple game that can lead to lots of laughs, interesting discussions, and maybe even some surprising revelations about each other.

Here's how it works: One person asks a question with two options, and the other has to choose one. Easy, right? But trust me, the answers can be pretty eye-opening!

I've put together 100 questions for you, divided into different categories. Let's dive in!

Fun Questions

  • Netflix or YouTube?
  • Board games or video games?
  • Sunrise or sunset?
  • Beach vacation or mountain getaway?
  • Dogs or cats?
  • Pancakes or waffles?
  • Camping or luxury hotel?
  • Roller coasters or water slides?
  • Pizza or tacos?
  • Superhero movies or rom-coms?
  • Singing or dancing?
  • Text or call?
  • Early bird or night owl?
  • Coffee or tea?
  • Book or movie?

Flirty Questions

  • Kisses or hugs?
  • Holding hands or arm around the waist?
  • Surprise gifts or planned presents?
  • Romantic dinner at home or fancy restaurant?
  • Slow dance or fast dance?
  • Love notes or love songs?
  • Matching outfits or coordinated colors?
  • Candlelit bath or stargazing?
  • Massage or cuddling?
  • Flowers or chocolates?
  • Nicknames or real names?
  • Spontaneous dates or planned outings?
  • Public displays of affection or private moments?
  • Romantic comedy or action movie date?
  • Breakfast in bed or midnight snack?

Spicy Questions

  • Lights on or off?
  • Shower together or bubble bath?
  • Massage oil or whipped cream?
  • Blindfold or handcuffs?
  • Quickie or long session?
  • Morning or night?
  • Dominant or submissive?
  • Roleplay or strip tease?
  • Hot or cold?
  • Lingerie or birthday suit?
  • Toys or no toys?
  • Planned or spontaneous?
  • Gentle or rough?
  • Talking or silence?
  • Indoors or outdoors?

Romantic Questions

  • Homemade gift or store-bought?
  • Love letters or love poems?
  • Slow dance or waltz?
  • Picnic in the park or dinner cruise?
  • Surprise weekend getaway or planned vacation?
  • Matching jewelry or personalized items?
  • Sunset walk on the beach or moonlit garden stroll?
  • Couple's massage or cooking class together?
  • Recreate your first date or create a new perfect date?
  • Romantic movie marathon or couple's game night?
  • Ballroom dancing or salsa lessons?
  • Horse-drawn carriage ride or hot air balloon ride?
  • Write a song together or paint portraits of each other?
  • Plant a tree together or make a time capsule?
  • Star naming or adopt an animal together?

Deep Questions

  • Love or money?
  • Career success or relationship success?
  • City life or country life?
  • Adventure or stability?
  • Honesty that hurts or white lies?
  • Passion or comfort?
  • Freedom or security?
  • Intelligence or kindness?
  • Ambition or contentment?
  • Social butterfly or homebody?
  • Optimist or realist?
  • Forgiveness or justice?
  • Change or consistency?
  • Logic or emotion?
  • Live in the moment or plan for the future?

Lifestyle Questions

  • Save or spend?
  • Cook at home or eat out?
  • Big wedding or small ceremony?
  • Kids or no kids?
  • Apartment in the city or house in the suburbs?
  • Work from home or office job?
  • Gym workout or outdoor exercise?
  • Traditional or modern?
  • Minimalist or collector?
  • DIY projects or hire professionals?
  • Vacation abroad or road trip?
  • Host parties or attend as guests?
  • Brand names or bargain hunting?
  • Digital books or physical books?
  • Social media or face-to-face interactions?

Future Together Questions

  • Joint bank account or separate finances?
  • Live near your family or my family?
  • Retire early or work longer but travel more?
  • Adopt a pet or have a child?
  • Start a business together or pursue individual careers?
  • Live in one place or move around?
  • Renovate an old house or build a new one?
  • Holiday traditions: create our own or follow family customs?
  • Volunteer together or donate to charities?
  • Learn a new language or pick up a new hobby together?
  • Weekly date nights or yearly romantic getaways?
  • Join a couple's club or maintain separate friend groups?
  • Invest in property or invest in experiences?
  • Focus on career growth or work-life balance?
  • Plan for the future or live spontaneously?

Remember, there are no right or wrong answers. The fun is in learning about each other's preferences and discussing why you chose one option over the other.